To Get Her — South Korea’s First Lesbian Dating Show Is Here and the Internet Is Already Obsessed

South Korea’s dating show landscape just got a historic makeover. To Get Her, the country’s first-ever lesbian dating reality show, has officially arrived — and it’s turning heads for all the right reasons. If you’ve been craving inclusive, emotionally authentic content from the K-content world, this one is for you.

What Is To Get Her?

To Get Her is a groundbreaking all-female Korean reality dating show where participants try to find love — with another woman. The title itself is a clever double meaning: the journey to find her, and the process of coming together. Much like any other dating show, the women converse, connect, go on dates, hold hands, share sunsets, and build genuine bonds — but with an authentic queer lens that Korean TV has never shown before.

Why Is Everyone Talking About It?

The buzz around To Get Her started even before it aired — and for a surprisingly sweet reason. The teaser, which deliberately kept the participants’ faces hidden, still managed to go viral. Why? Because the warmth, the nervous energy, the excitement of new connection — it all felt deeply human and real. Viewers weren’t seeing a gimmick; they were seeing people falling in love.

This is being compared to Netflix Japan’s wildly popular gay dating show The Boyfriend, which proved that LGBTQ+ reality content resonates across global audiences when done with care and sincerity. To Get Her seems poised to do the same for Korean content.

South Korea has historically been conservative regarding same-sex relationships, which makes To Get Her not just a TV show — it’s a cultural moment.

What Makes It Worth Watching?

Beyond the romance, To Get Her promises real vulnerability. Participants aren’t just playing to the camera — they’re navigating genuine connection, tension, and emotional risk. For fans of authentic storytelling, that’s what sets it apart from formulaic dating content.

If you’re already deep into the K-content rabbit hole, check out our coverage of the latest Korean dramas and shows streaming now on TechnoSports and our K-drama watchlist recommendations for 2025 to keep your queue loaded.

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